Kerala matrimonials is a free matrimony for malayalees belonging to Christian, Hindu and Muslim religions, who want to marry soon. Here is some details about indian wedding.
Wedding Services / Directory in Kerala
The engagement is conducted after checking the compatibility of both
boy and girl, here the Bride and Groom in their traditional Wedding
dresses exchange rings. Usually the engagement is held as a sacred one
and is not allowed to withdraw For fixing the day of 
the marriage.The usual procedure is that on the day given by the astrologer, two to
three male members of the grooms family will go to the brides house and
gives the astrology slip mentioning the day, date and the exact time
(muhurtam) to conduct the wedding. Normally Tuesdays and Fridays are
avoided for this visit. On marriage, the girl visits the temple of her
favorite deity.
the marriage.The usual procedure is that on the day given by the astrologer, two to
three male members of the grooms family will go to the brides house and
gives the astrology slip mentioning the day, date and the exact time
(muhurtam) to conduct the wedding. Normally Tuesdays and Fridays are
avoided for this visit. On marriage, the girl visits the temple of her
favorite deity.
Christian weddings in Kerala are held in the church.The groom invites the bride on the wedding day by sending her
wedding transportation to the church and waits for her.The bride arrives dressed in her white wedding gown or an off-white saree.
The groom usually wears a formal suit. Bride is handed a bouquet of flowers
by the groom’s best man. She is then is led down the aisle by her
father . The priest there receives the couple and a wedding mass is held
with special wedding songs from the Bible. Once the parents of bride and groom fix the marriage after mutual
consultations, they have to notify theirindividual churches to procure
sanction. Once the sanction is granted, they have to undergo a marriage
preparation course conducted by
the church. After that, at a day of their convenience (except on
Fridays), they have to present themselves before the church officer for
"manasammatham". After this for the next 3successive Sundays, this
engagement will be announced. This is to inform others and to give them a
chance to file objection, if they have any.
Nikah can be held anytime, no auspicious timing in Islam. Initial process, "valayidal"- the custom of giving Wedding Jewellery to the girl. On engagement, some male members of the bride's 
family will travel to the groom's house, and after reciting some parts of Quran, the boy will be given some gold ornaments or cash.At some places dowry is passed,not bound by any law.On the preceding day of the marriage, sister of the
family will travel to the groom's house, and after reciting some parts of Quran, the boy will be given some gold ornaments or cash.At some places dowry is passed,not bound by any law.On the preceding day of the marriage, sister of the
groom and some female relatives proceed to the bride's house to take part in "mailanchi". On the day of Marriage, the groom and his entourage will reach the Wedding Hall at the appointed time. Brother of the girl receives him offering a bouquet and garland.Then the groom is led to the place where "nikkah" is taking place. The Nikah, conducted by musaliar reads selected verses from the Quran and the Nikah is complete after Ijab-e-Qubul (proposal and acceptance according to (Indian Marriage Law). After this the groom is led to the women's section. Here he will tie a gold chain around the neck of the bride, assisted by his sister. After the wedding there is a big reception, given by the bride's parents to
guests from both sides. After the reception bride is taken to the
groom's house and later they will proceed towards the bride's house.
Sindhi Wedding
ReplyDeleteThe Sindhi wedding is presided over by a special priest known as "Mehraj", specialising in matchmaking and a Guryanni , who presents the horoscopes of eligible boys and girls to those for a match.
Pre Wedding Rituals
Once the prospective bride and groom is selected by the families and their kundlis match to make sure that they have a happy married life, the big Sindhi wedding starts unfurling with its numerous unique rituals.
Janya or the sacred thread ceremony starts with the groom donning the sacred yellow thread while the Mehraj whispers Guru Mantra in his ears. Though this ceremony ritualistically should be performed during adolescence , most Sindhi's now prefer to do this day or two considered incomplete. After this comes the two step engagement ritual called Kachchi Misri and Pakki Misri.
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A Complete guide for your auspicious occasion of marriage
ReplyDeleteCongratulations !
You are about to start a new life.. one filled with the promise of happiness
and dreams coming true..
Your wedding is meant to be a momentous affair, but one that will
demand a lot of planning and decision making. This wedding planner is
specifically designed to provide an organised approach towards making
your wedding a runaway success. By following this guide, step by step,
and all your plans, we hope will run to perfection.
Setting the Wedding Date
The date is usually based on the auspicious time given by the family
pandit, but it is thoughtful to make sure that it does not clash with any
other event in the family, and is convenient for people to attend.
Engagement
This is the first of the formal ceremonies. Traditionally , rings and gifts
are exchanged between the bride and the groom's families. Ascertain ring
sizes and buy the engagement rings well in advance, so that the couple
can try them out before the ceremony.
Invitation Cards
Invitation cards are now available in individualistic and unique designs.
*Place an order for invitations with a printer well in advance. A few extras
will come handy.
*Also order for informal cards for writing "thank you" notes.
*It is in good order to place a small map of the venue on the invitation
card.
*Start mailing the invites two months in advance for outstation guests.
*It is nice gesture to send invites to even those family members and
friends who you know will not be able to attend the ceremony.
Legal Formalities
*Register at the matrimony sites.
*Inform change in address to the postal department and to all the
relatives and friends.
*Apply for change of maiden name in important documents, ration card,
etc.
Check List
Maintain a time Schedule.
Once the shaadi Date is decided.
* Plan your budget.
*Visualise your wedding theme.
*Choose the venue.
*Start interviewing service providers.
*Start your trousseau and jewellery shopping.
*Decide on your honeymoon destination.
*Draw the guest list.
*Buy a wedding planner and maintain records.
At 6 Months to the Wedding...
*Order the invites and stationery.
*Book the pandit, beautician , car hire agency.
*If travelling abroad for your honeymoon, check your visas, passports and
medical clearance.
*Reserve your wedding night bridal chamber.
*Make hotel bookings for out-of-town guests.
*Start a beauty regime.
At 2 Months to the Wedding...
*Do an RSVP with guests and draw up a final guest list.
*Confirm all reservations.
*Choose gifts for relatives and friends.
*Do a hair and make-up run through.
*Make a list of photographs you wish to be taken.
*Make a list of the music you wish to be played.
At 2 Weeek to the marriage...
*Do a final confirmation of all the reservations and service providers.
* Confirm the transportation schdule.
* Give the caterer the final guest count.
*Make sure all attentdants have a copy of the wedding day schedule.
*Do a final dress fitting with shoes, jewellery and make-up.
*Pack for your honeymoon.
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